Can Beating be the Solution of Problem?

Another article… I started to write this around 2 week back but due to laziness could not complete.J

Few days back there was UNICEF’s report in Times of India & after reading article the first expression was What!!! Literally for a day, it was just hammering my mind and thinking really we are getting educated or it’s just an illusion of education. In this century, where we proudly talk about equality, More than 50% people think Wife Beating is Acceptable to them. The more shocking is even female themselves justify this domestic violence. (http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/india/57-of-boys-53-of-girls-think-wife-beating-is-justified/articleshow/12862006.cms)

I agree how much we talk about equality, it is n will be Male dominating society; it will take years n years to have gender equality; but it does not mean that females are meant to be dominated or they should be beaten. Wife beating cannot be acceptable, whatever situation or problem arises. What people think does it solve the problem; No rather it makes the problem wider, shatters the woman self respect; It just n just satisfy the Male Ego. God has created man & woman; Man – strong Woman-soft tender and by beating a weaker person what they want to prove their manship. Though females are physically weak but I would say they are much mentally stronger than Man. Ever person has thought the way he beats his wife; her daughter can be beaten by her husband.

Somebody can’t see the lady who is being continuously beaten, what mental trauma she must be facing... what about herself respect, confidence level, how she will nurture her family, what moral values she will give to her children. She is not object or your servant; she is your companion for lifetime. In this survey 15-19 age group people are also included and they also agree with this; children brought up in such atmosphere become adapted to this and do the same in future. Kudos to our education which make us literate only; not how to be good human, citizen. This thought came into my mind also when I watched Satyamev Jayte’s cover story on female feticide; where highly educated people are involved in this; but I ll not touch that topic here.

Two lines ahead I just cursed our education, but educating the women only can reduce this domestic violence rate. Women does not raise their voice against violence; they think how will they survive in this world, how will they up bring their children. Thanks to Education only; who make women self independent, make women confident to raise their voice.

This I am sharing with you my friends, not for any social site J To have Happy life, respect each other; there are various ways to solve any problem not beating. In future if u come across to this situation; give a thought

“Will beating solve your problem or it just satisfying the Ego?”